Beyond Harvard — Applying Real Leadership Principles in Everyday Business

Harvard, Stanford, and INSEAD — world-class institutions shaping global leaders.
I was fortunate to attend executive programs at all three. The experience was thrilling — diverse classmates, spirited debates, and even an Indian peer who wrote a hilarious song capturing our Stanford journey.

But when you land back home, reality hits. The flight wasn’t the only thing flying at 30,000 feet — so was the content.
The programs were intellectually inspiring but distant from the daily grind — budgets, staff stress, and the countless small decisions leaders must make every day.

Mini-summary: The view from 30,000 feet is inspiring — but leadership happens at ground level.

Dale Carnegie’s timeless leadership principles provide that bridge.
Take Principle #22: “Begin with praise and honest appreciation.”
It sounds obvious — but how often do leaders truly do it? Under pressure, we dive straight into numbers, cash flow, or missed targets. But starting with genuine praise builds psychological safety — the foundation for trust and innovation.

Don’t fake it. Notice something real, acknowledge it, and watch motivation soar.

Mini-summary: Real appreciation isn’t soft — it’s strategic.

In Japan, mistakes are treated like career crimes. “Fail faster” may make you a hero in Silicon Valley, but here it gets you sidelined.
As a result, people hide errors — innovation dies in the shadows.
Principle #23: “Call attention to people’s mistakes indirectly” and #26: “Let the other person save face” are not “Western” or “Eastern” — they are human truths.

Public shaming never builds engagement. Empathy does.
Add Principle #24: “Talk about your own mistakes before criticising the other person.” That one act humanizes leadership and gives permission for learning.

Mini-summary: Saving face saves innovation.

Principle #25: “Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.”
Once, leaders had “super-vision.” Today, business complexity means no one has all the answers.
If you’re doing all the talking, you’re learning nothing.
Ask powerful questions — then stay silent. Let your team wrestle with ideas.
Being asked for input is empowering. In Japanese business, asking the right question is often more valued than having the right answer.

Mini-summary: Stop instructing — start inquiring.

They are common sense — yet rarely common practice.
Easy to understand, hard to master.
When applied consistently, they transform daily interactions from transactional to transformational.
Leadership isn’t about remembering theory; it’s about making principles a habit — reflexive, reliable, and real.

Mini-summary: Principles turn good intentions into daily habits.

• Business schools teach frameworks; Dale Carnegie teaches human nature.

• Praise and appreciation build psychological safety.

• Saving face and admitting your own mistakes foster innovation.

• Asking questions empowers people — and expands leadership intelligence.

• Common sense becomes powerful when practiced consistently.

Dale Carnegie Tokyo helps leaders turn timeless principles into daily performance — mastering the art of human relations that drive innovation and engagement.

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Founded in the U.S. in 1912, Dale Carnegie Training has supported individuals and companies worldwide for over a century in leadership, sales, presentation, executive coaching, and DEI. Our Tokyo office, established in 1963, has been empowering both Japanese and multinational corporate clients ever since.