Episode #129: Taking A Hit On The Price

Why do clients push for discounts even when you’ve priced for value?

Clients often demand discounts for reasons that have little to do with your real value. Many anchor to what they think something should cost, or they use discount pressure as a negotiation tactic to pull you into haggling. This is especially common when they sense urgency on your side—like sharks smelling blood in the water.

Mini-summary: Discount pressure is frequently a strategy, not a fair response to your value.

Your price is not just a number—it’s a public signal of where you stand in the market. You set prices to match the quality you believe you deliver. But buyers may compare you to cheaper alternatives that seem similar. That gap in perceived value is what hurt Starbucks in Australia, where local cafés were viewed as better cost-performance options, forcing Starbucks to close most outlets.
Mini-summary: Pricing is a positioning statement, and perception—not your intent—drives buyer reactions.

When should you accept a discount vs. walk away?

You always face a fork in the road:

• Accept the discount to secure business now, especially if you’re financially pressured.

• Walk away to defend your positioning when you know your value is superior.

To walk away confidently, you need a healthy pipeline of buyers who will pay full value. If you’re desperate, your options narrow and discounting feels unavoidable.
Mini-summary: Walking away is a strategic choice that requires pipeline and conviction.

What happens once you start discounting?

Discounting is rarely a “one-time exception.” Once buyers learn you’ll bend, they press every time. Some thrive on “sports negotiating,” where they win by forcing you lower and lower to test desperation.

Example: sales teams forced to chase monthly quotas by calling around offering discounts often get crushed by aggressive negotiators. Over time, this destroys morale and confidence.

Mini-summary: Discounting trains buyers to expect weakness and drains sales motivation.

How do you escape toxic price negotiations?

If a buyer drags you into mud-and-blood haggling, step out. The longer you stay, the more your confidence and motivation erode. These interactions create a vicious emotional cycle: negativity → desperation → worse deals → more negativity.

Instead, redirect your energy to professional, ethical partners who respect value.
Mini-summary: Leave toxic negotiations fast and focus on buyers who value partnership.

How do “future opportunities” trap you into discounts?

Discounting feels tempting when buyers hint at more business “in the offing.” The problem is that “maybe later” is not a contract.

You can try bundling deals:

“We discount this now because we’re committing both projects together.”

But buyers often resist because they don’t want to commit. That returns you to the core question:
Where is your walk-away point, and can you financially hold it?

Mini-summary: Never trade real margin today for vague promises tomorrow.

In Japan, an entry discount often becomes your permanent price ceiling. Once the buyer slots you into a low price level, raising it later is extremely difficult. This creates long-term lock-in to low profit margins.

So the “discount to get in” strategy is far riskier here than many sellers realize.

Mini-summary: In Japan, early discounting can lock you into low margins indefinitely.

How do you handle the emotional pain of walking away?

Walking away hurts because it feels like losing business with no immediate replacement. Your brain whispers:

“A little business is better than none.”

But accepting bad pricing damages:

• your positioning

• your belief in your value

• your long-term profitability

And here’s the truth: one buyer’s “ridiculous price” can be another buyer’s “reasonable investment.” You may experience both reactions in the same day. Don’t let one negative meeting poison your confidence.

Mini-summary: Walking protects your value, even when it feels painful in the moment.

• Your price defends your positioning—discounting weakens both.

• Desperation invites haggling; pipeline gives you power.

• In Japan, entry discounts often become permanent expectations.

• The right buyers will pay full value—walk away from the wrong ones.

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