Episode #132: Attribute Selling For Salespeople

Why do salespeople need to “sell themselves” before selling a product?

In any sales conversation, the first “sale” is you. Buyers decide whether to trust you long before they evaluate your solution. The challenge is doing this without sounding boastful, desperate, or over-talkative.
The key is subtle credibility: show who you are through relevance and evidence, not self-praise.

Mini-summary: You earn the right to sell your product by first earning trust in you—quietly and credibly.

Most buyers focus on a small set of personal attributes:

• Trustworthiness

• Reliability

• Consistency in delivery

• Follow-through on promises

These matter across industries, but especially in Japan where long-term partnership and reputation are central to business culture in 日本企業 (Japanese companies) and 外資系企業 (multinational/foreign-affiliated companies).

Mini-summary: Buyers don’t start with “Is the product good?”—they start with “Can I rely on this person?”

How do you choose which personal strengths to highlight for each buyer?

Before meeting a client, prepare a wide “reservoir” of your strongest relevant attributes. Different buyers value different things, so you need options you can draw from depending on the client’s priorities and the conversation flow.

A practical way:

1. List your strongest professional traits (e.g., reliability, speed, calm under pressure).

2. For each buyer, select the 2–3 traits most relevant to their realities.

3. Plan how to surface them naturally in conversation.

Mini-summary: Don’t guess on the fly—prepare a flexible set of strengths tailored to each buyer’s needs.

Why is simply stating your strengths not enough?

Saying “I’m reliable” or “You can trust me” usually lands flat. It risks sounding like empty marketing.
What convinces buyers is proof—real cases, experiences, and outcomes that demonstrate your traits.

So every attribute must be paired with evidence:

• Attribute → matching story → measurable result or client outcome.

Mini-summary: Attributes alone feel like claims; attributes plus evidence feel like facts.

You weave reliability into your understanding of the buyer’s world, then support it with your track record.

Example approach (adaptable to your context):

• First show insight into their operational risk.

• Then share your proven consistency.

Illustrative phrasing:

“I know that in this industry, downstream distributors depend on Just-In-Time supply because storage is limited. I take pride in the fact that none of my clients has ever experienced a delay—our deliveries have consistently met their schedules.”

This works because:

• It starts with their reality, not your ego.

• It includes a verifiable outcome.

• It feels like professionalism, not self-promotion.

Mini-summary: Reliability is best sold through the buyer’s pain point plus your proven results.

How do you communicate trustworthiness through client evidence?

Trust becomes believable when it is seen through client behavior, not your self-description.

Example approach:

“Good business is built on trust. I know my clients trust me because they continue to reorder and expand their business with us.”

Even stronger when you add specific references:

“Mr. Tanaka from XYZ company became my client ten years ago. We’ve supported them every month like clockwork. Today we operate as a trusted extension of their team.”

In Japan, continuity and relationship history carry major weight, especially when positioning yourself as a long-term partner.

Mini-summary: Let repeat business and named client examples speak for your trustworthiness.

Why is preparation more effective than improvisation?

Trying to insert attributes and stories spontaneously is hit-or-miss. You may miss the moment, or sound forced.
Instead, prepare an “attributes-evidence construct” in advance:

• Attribute: what the buyer cares about

• Evidence: real story that proves it

• Angle: how it connects to their business priorities

• Backup: second story if the conversation shifts

This allows you to respond confidently in any direction the buyer takes—without scrambling.

Mini-summary: Prepared stories create calm confidence; improvisation creates risk and awkwardness.

What is the biggest mistake when “selling yourself”?

The fastest way to trigger doubt is to talk about your greatness without proof.
Boasting invites skepticism. But when the client’s experience proves your value, credibility rises naturally and safely.

The evidence must be real—because a serious buyer may verify it. If they want to speak to your reference, your story must stand.

Mini-summary: Self-praise creates doubt; client-proven evidence creates trust.

• Buyers decide on trust and reliability first, product second.

• Prepare a wide list of strengths, then tailor 2–3 to each buyer.

• Pair every attribute with real, specific evidence.

• Let client outcomes and repeat business describe your credibility for you.

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