Episode #197: Dealing With The Deal Sugar Hit

Why do buyers feel anxious right after saying “yes,” especially in Japan?

In many sales conversations, we build excitement fast. The buyer gets an emotional “sugar hit” from the vision we paint: a better future, a solved problem, a win for their team. Then the deal closes… and we leave.

What follows is predictable: the emotional high fades, and doubt moves in. This is buyer’s remorse in professional clothing. In Japan, where “no mistakes allowed” culture is strong, this post-decision anxiety can be even sharper. People fear accountability, reputational damage, or internal blame. They need reassurance that this decision is safe and correct.

Mini-summary: Buyers often crash emotionally after a deal, and in Japan that crash is intensified by low tolerance for risk and error.

Think of dark chocolate: the sugar lift feels great, but the energy drop that follows can be brutal. Sales works the same way. We:

1. Build trust

2. Discover needs through questions

3. Match solutions

4. Handle hesitation

5. Gain agreement

That process creates momentum and emotion. But if we don’t manage what happens next, the buyer is left in “ungratified stasis”—a quiet, uneasy pause where doubts can grow.

This matters whether you sell to an individual or a corporate decision-maker. The human brain reacts similarly: emotion first, logic second. If logic isn’t reinforced after the deal, emotion alone won’t hold.

Mini-summary: The close creates an emotional high; without a logical landing, doubt takes over.

What are buyers thinking once the excitement fades?

Right after signing, buyers may silently ask:

• “Did I make the right choice?”

• “Will this cause trouble inside the company?”

• “Did I miss a risk?”

• “What if the result isn’t what I promised?”

In B2B, we sometimes forget we’re dealing with humans, not job titles. In Japan, especially within 日本企業 (Japanese companies), the fear of being wrong is tied to career and social standing. Even 外資系企業 (multinational companies) operating in 東京 (Tokyo) adopt many of these risk-avoidant norms.

If we “glide off into the sunset,” we unintentionally leave space for doubt to harden into resistance.

Mini-summary: After the deal, buyers may worry about risk, reputation, and internal consequences—especially in Japan.

Once agreement is secured, your job shifts from excite to reassure. The key is to anchor them in logic.

Do this immediately:

• Summarize the decision clearly. Restate the needs, the solution, and why it fits.

• Explain the business impact. Connect the deal to their goals in measurable terms.

• Clarify next steps in detail. Timelines, invoices, payment dates, delivery flow—no ambiguity.

• Use a calm, confident tone. Not hype. Not pressure. Quiet certainty.

You’re not extending the sugar hit. You’re preventing the crash.

Mini-summary: Post-close reassurance means calmly reinforcing logic, impact, and clear next steps.

What question must you ask before leaving the meeting?

Ask:

“Do you have any questions about the deal or delivery arrangements?”

Then stop talking.
Silence is essential. You’re giving them permission to surface hidden doubts. This is where you catch buyer’s remorse early, before it spreads internally.

Mini-summary: Ask for questions and stay silent to flush out lingering uncertainty.

When and how should you request referrals after the close?

Referrals work best after you’ve stabilized the buyer. They’re warm, relieved, and open to helping.

Avoid vague prompts like:

• “Do you know anyone who…?”

That forces them to scan their whole universe—confusing and heavy. Instead, narrow their mental focus:

“Among your current business contacts in Tokyo, have you met anyone who may also benefit by applying this type of solution?”

This helps them visualize specific people, making referral action easy.

Mini-summary: Ask for referrals after calming the buyer, using a focused, visual prompt.

Send two simple, logical reinforcements:

1. Same-day email:

   • List the five most important logical reasons this decision will help their business.

   • Reconfirm next steps and timelines.

2. Next-morning email:

   • Attach evidence: data, white papers, references, case studies.

   • Anything concrete that supports the decision beyond “salesperson talk.”

This keeps doubt from finding oxygen.

Mini-summary: Use fast, evidence-based follow-ups to lock in logic and prevent second-guessing.

• Closing is not the end of the sale—it’s the start of buyer reassurance.

• Emotional momentum fades quickly; logical clarity must replace it.

• In Japan, post-deal anxiety is amplified by strong accountability culture.

• Calm summaries, silence for questions, and evidence-driven follow-ups prevent buyer’s remorse.

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