Episode #215: Customer Service

Every interaction between a company and its customers — whether online, through a chatbot, or face-to-face in a store — is designed and executed by people. Those people operate within a culture shaped by senior management. When leaders fail to “walk the talk,” the gap between their intentions and the customer’s experience widens.

In Japan, where both 日本企業 (Japanese corporations) and 外資系企業 (multinational firms) rely on long-term relationships, the customer experience begins with employee experience. Leadership, communication, and trust form the invisible infrastructure that defines every service encounter.

Summary: The quality of customer experience reflects the culture built by leadership, not just the systems or scripts.

Great customer service begins with great employee service. Richard Branson’s famous philosophy — “employees first, customers second” — is not sentimentality; it’s strategy. When leaders genuinely value their teams, those teams naturally pass that respect to customers.

Leaders must recognize that emotions drive behavior, and behavior drives performance. When the corporate culture is built on appreciation and trust, employees engage customers sincerely — not because they must, but because they want to.

Summary: Leadership that invests in people’s emotional and professional well-being produces customer loyalty and brand trust.

True leadership is not about rank or tenure; it’s about earning cooperation. To secure alignment, executives need well-developed people and communication skills — and they must ensure their middle managers have them too.

Many top executives in Tokyo believe they’re modeling the right culture, yet mid-level management can unknowingly sabotage those efforts. Culture only becomes real when it’s lived consistently from the C-suite to the customer-facing floor.

Summary: A service-oriented culture must cascade from leadership to middle management to the front line — consistently and visibly.

If we want sincerity in customer service, we must be sincere within our organization first. Appreciation and recognition must flow downward before they can flow outward to customers.

People can detect fake praise instantly. By balancing correction with genuine acknowledgment, leaders build trust, morale, and engagement — which directly translates to better customer experiences.

Summary: Authentic appreciation creates emotional equity that strengthens both staff and customer relationships.

Bosses who don’t listen often assume their staff and customers do. But listening is a discipline that starts at the top. A culture of listening and questioning — not telling — reveals insights no analytics dashboard can provide.

In Japan’s service-driven market, good listening builds empathy and competitive advantage. Leaders who model curiosity and openness create teams that truly understand their clients’ needs.

Summary: Listening is the foundation of trust and the most direct path to customer insight.

In both management and sales, ownership drives commitment. Telling people what to do breeds compliance; guiding them to discover the best course themselves builds ownership.

By designing thoughtful questions, leaders help employees and customers reach their own conclusions — often matching the organization’s goals. The result? Higher engagement, reduced resistance, and stronger alignment.

Summary: Leadership through questioning creates ownership, and ownership sustains motivation.

Persuasion begins when we step into the client’s world — emotionally and logically. Leaders and sales professionals must learn to join the conversation already happening in the customer’s mind.

This empathy-based communication is not manipulation; it’s understanding. When leaders cultivate empathy internally, staff naturally reflect it outward, making every interaction more human, persuasive, and memorable.

Summary: Emotional intelligence enables influence, trust, and lasting customer relationships.

The best service cultures operate on autopilot — powered by trust and appreciation, not supervision.
To achieve this, leaders must transform their internal communication from “tell” to “ask.” Questioning opens dialogue, invites ownership, and aligns intentions across the organization.

This questioning mindset extends to customer conversations too — uncovering true needs, building rapport, and leading to solutions that customers feel are their own.

Summary: A questioning, listening-based culture produces consistent, authentic service excellence.

• Great customer service begins with great leadership — and great leadership begins with genuine care for employees.

• Emotional intelligence, listening, and appreciation are not soft skills; they are business strategies.

• A consistent culture from executives to the front line ensures every customer interaction reflects the company’s values.

• Asking questions — not giving orders — builds ownership, trust, and long-term loyalty.

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