Episode #335: How Can The Player/Coach Sales Leader Manage The Twixt And Tween Problem

Why do top sales producers often fail as new sales leaders?

Because success as a “producer” depends on personal talent and habits, while success as a leader depends on creating repeatable performance in others. When you’re promoted into a player-coach role, the organization often assumes you can simply say “do what I do.” But your team isn’t you—so your methods don’t automatically transfer.

Mini-summary: Great individual results don’t guarantee great team results; leadership requires a different skill set.

You inherit two competing goals:

1. Hit your personal number.

2. Lift the team to hit the total target.

Without support, your workload expands fast: your own pipeline, plus coaching, forecasting, meetings, HR issues, and cross-functional coordination. If the team’s output stays flat while targets rise, you’re the one held accountable.

Mini-summary: The player-coach trap is real—your role balloons unless you lead through leverage.

Leverage. Your job is to multiply results through others. Even if coaching takes time away from your own selling, the return is scalable: ten people working well beats one person working harder. A leader trades some personal selling time for bigger collective revenue.

Mini-summary: Your core job isn’t to be the hero—it’s to build a team that wins without you.

The moment you’re offered the leadership role. That’s when your influence is highest. If leaders wait until after promotion, many companies shift into “harvest mode,” expecting results without investing in capability. Push early. If they refuse, you can still decide whether the role is worth taking.

Mini-summary: Ask for training budget before you accept; afterward, support often disappears.

What if the company won’t fund training?

You still have options to raise capability cheaply and consistently:

1. Master the basics yourself.
Even if your success came from talent or timing, your team needs fundamentals. Leaders must study selling as a craft.

2. Create a shared sales “reading club.”
Pick one strong sales book and have everyone read it together. This builds a common vocabulary and makes coaching precise.

Mini-summary: If there’s no budget, build a low-cost system to standardize sales fundamentals.

What daily practices improve sales skills fastest?

Supervised role plays.
Short role plays at the start of the day are far better than letting salespeople “practice on clients.” The key is feedback:

• Tell them what was Good.

• Then show how to make it Better.

Positive coaching increases confidence and openness. Harsh critique creates resistance or fear.

Mini-summary: Frequent role plays + Good/Better feedback builds skill and motivation quickly.

How can you coach without spending all day coaching?

Selective client visits.
Join salespeople on key client meetings occasionally. Observe their execution, identify gaps, and debrief right after. This gives you real data on where they struggle and makes your coaching targeted.

Mini-summary: Field coaching in small doses delivers high-impact insight and improvement.

In many 日本企業 (Japanese companies) and 外資系企業 (multinational companies) operating in 東京 (Tokyo), targets rise annually, but formal training for new managers is often limited. Cultural pressures to “figure it out” can silently overload new leaders. A leverage mindset plus consistent capability-building protects performance and well-being.

Mini-summary: In Japan, where promotion ≠ training, leverage and structure are essential for sustainable results.

• Player-coach leaders fail when they rely on “do what I do” instead of building repeatable skills.

• Ask for training budget before accepting the role; that’s your window of influence.

• If budget is tight, standardize basics through reading clubs and coached role plays.

• Leadership success comes from leverage: improving 10 sellers beats overworking 1 leader.

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