How Leaders Can Turn Internal Friction into Inclusion: The Five-Phase Prism for Conflict Resolution
Why Internal Friction Destroys Diversity Efforts
Like a disease, internal friction quietly corrodes organizations. For leaders aiming to foster diversity, these hidden tensions are especially dangerous. True diversity cannot exist without inclusion — and inclusion cannot thrive in an environment filled with unresolved disputes.
In Japan, many organizations understand the “why” of Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) but struggle with the “how.” Conflicts between departments, personalities, and priorities often stall inclusion initiatives, keeping companies stuck in awareness rather than progress.
Mini-summary:
Unresolved conflict is the silent killer of inclusion — mastering resolution is the key to real diversity.
The Five-Phase Prism of Conflict Resolution
To convert diversity awareness into inclusive practice, leaders need a systematic framework for resolving internal disputes.
Here is the Five-Phase Prism to guide that process:
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Identify the Nature of the Dispute
Clarify what the disagreement is really about — resources, roles, goals, or personalities. -
Assess People’s Conflict Styles
Recognize each participant’s approach: avoiding, accommodating, competing, compromising, or collaborating. -
Find the Root Cause
Dig beneath the surface to uncover unmet needs, unclear expectations, or communication breakdowns. -
Explore Possible Solutions
Brainstorm multiple options. Ask, “What could work for everyone?” rather than, “Who’s right?” -
Select and Implement the Best Path
Choose a balanced resolution and act promptly before momentum or trust fades.
Mini-summary:
Structure turns emotional chaos into constructive dialogue.
Timing and Setting: The Leadership Advantage
Conflict resolution is not just what you say, but when and where you say it.
Avoid discussions when emotions are still high — let everyone cool off first. Then, choose a quiet, neutral space away from the regular workplace. This setting allows honesty without judgment.
Ask open-ended questions that focus on solutions rather than blame:
“What could we do differently next time?” instead of “Why did you make that mistake?”
Mini-summary:
Calm timing and safe spaces turn confrontation into collaboration.
Active Listening: The Core of Inclusion
People handle conflict differently — some withdraw, others attack, and some seek harmony.
Leaders must practice active listening: paying attention to words, tone, and emotion without interrupting.
This not only resolves the immediate issue but models inclusion in action — showing respect for every voice.
Mini-summary:
Listening is not passive — it’s the most active tool for inclusion and trust.
Key Takeaways
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Inclusion requires resolving hidden internal frictions first.
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The Five-Phase Prism provides a repeatable framework for conflict resolution.
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Timing, environment, and tone determine success.
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Ask open-ended, non-blaming questions.
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Active listening transforms disagreement into unity.
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