The Seven Lucky Stars Of Selling

Luck isn’t random. In sales, luck is the meeting point of hard work and persistence. Top performers don’t wait for good breaks—they create them through repeatable behaviors. If your results feel inconsistent, the issue usually isn’t talent or timing. It’s whether your daily actions reliably shape buyer momentum.

Below are seven practical “luck creation” principles that sales professionals can start using immediately to drive more qualified opportunities, stronger trust, and faster decisions—especially in competitive, high-context markets like Japan’s corporate environment (日本企業 / Japanese companies) and multinational teams (外資系企業 / multinational companies).

Buyers only act to get what they want. Yet many salespeople focus on their own targets, quotas, or commission. Your first job is to help clients recognize a desire or urgency they haven’t fully acknowledged yet.

This often means surfacing the “cost of inaction.” Markets move even if your client doesn’t. Competitors keep innovating, hiring, and grabbing share. When you clearly show what staying still truly costs, you create the conditions for action.

Mini-summary: Luck grows when you shift the client from “nice to have” to “need to act,” by making the opportunity cost real and immediate.

2. How does talking in the buyer’s interests increase your sales “luck”?

Persuasion starts with alignment. If the buyer feels you understand their situation, they lower their guard. If they feel you’re pushing your agenda, trust evaporates.

Speak in terms of outcomes they care about: risk reduction, revenue growth, operational stability, team capability, reputational strength. In Japan, where long-term reliability and stakeholder harmony matter, showing authentic regard for the client’s goals is a major trust accelerator.

Mini-summary: Luck improves when clients believe you’re solving their problem—not just selling your product.

3. Why is avoiding arguments a key luck-creation skill in sales?

Arguing with buyers kills deals. Even if you “win” the logic, you lose the relationship. Many salespeople try to force-fit solutions where there’s no true match. That creates friction, resistance, and slow stalls.

Instead of pushing, step back. If a buyer disagrees, explore the reason. If your solution isn’t right, say so. The fastest way to credibility is refusing the wrong deal.

Mini-summary: You create better luck by removing conflict and focusing only on deals that genuinely fit.

4. How does letting the buyer talk more improve your close rate?

Talkative salespeople lose business because they miss what matters. Listening is where value is discovered. A strong rule: keep to a 20/80 ratio—salesperson speaks 20%, buyer speaks 80%.

As the buyer talks, you uncover real needs, internal constraints, decision criteria, and emotional drivers. Those details are the map to a proposal they want to approve.

Mini-summary: Luck rises when you listen deeply enough to hear what the buyer hasn’t said clearly yet.

5. What changes when you honestly see things from the buyer’s point of view?

Buyers act from fears, headaches, and aspirations—not from your product features. If you don’t know what keeps them awake at night, you’re guessing.

Empathy means investigating before presenting. Many salespeople jump into the pitch too soon. Instead, first clarify:

• What problem are they really trying to fix?

• What risk are they trying to avoid?

• What success are they aiming for?

Mini-summary: Seeing the buyer’s world clearly turns your pitch into a relevant solution, not noise.

6. Why do questions work better than statements in persuasive selling?

If you say something, it might be true. If the buyer says it, it becomes their truth—and that carries far more weight inside their organization.

Convert statements into questions:

• Instead of “We do overnight delivery,” ask: “Would overnight delivery be valuable for your business?”
  A “yes” produces ownership. A “no” gives direction toward what is valuable.

Mini-summary: Strategic questions help buyers convince themselves—your best form of sales luck.

7. How do you make buyers happy to do what you suggest—right now?

Good selling creates motivation, not pressure. You want buyers to feel positive about the decision and confident about timing.

Tie the purchase to their success story:

• What will improve after they act?

• What business result are they trying to lead?

• How will they look internally when this works?

When your solution is wrapped in their self-interest and achievement, urgency becomes natural.

Mini-summary: Luck is created when the buyer feels excited and proud to move forward immediately.

• Luck in sales is engineered through consistent buyer-focused behaviors.

• The seven principles help you build trust, uncover true needs, and shorten decision cycles.

• These approaches are especially effective in Japan’s relationship-driven corporate contexts (日本企業 / Japanese companies) and global business teams (外資系企業 / multinational companies).

• Mastery comes from practice—simple to remember, challenging to execute, and powerful when applied daily.

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With over 100 years of global expertise and more than 60 years in Tokyo (東京 / Tokyo), we help professionals in Japan build the communication and relationship skills that create real sales momentum—and real sales luck.